Wednesday, November 16, 2005

True Hallucinations


Hope these words are not cold To you

Life in Perspective

For those still learning
this puts it all into words
perfectly. I call it the "True Hallucinations "

"life Crisis."
It is when you stop
going along with the crowd and

start realizing that there are a lot of
things about yourself that you

didn't know and may or may not like.
You start feeling insecure and wonder where

you will be in a year or
two, but then get scared because you barely

know where you are now.
You start realizing that people are selfish

and that, maybe, those
friends that you thought you were

so close to aren't exactly the
greatest people you have ever met and

the people you have lost touch
with are some of the most important ones.
What you do not realize is that they are realizing

that too and are not really cold or catty or mean
or insincere, but that they are as
confused as you. You look at your job.

It is not even close to what
you thought you would be doing or maybe you are

looking for one and realizing that you are going
to have to start at the bottom and are
scared. You miss the comforts of college,

of groups, of socializing
with the same people on a constant basis.

But then you realize that
maybe they weren't so great after all.
You are beginning to understand yourself and what you want and do not
want. Your opinions have gotten stronger.

You see what others are
doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly
you realize that you have certain boundaries

in your life and add
things to your list of what is acceptable and what is not. You are
insecure and then secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of
your life. You feel alone and scared and confused.

Suddenly change is
the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life but soon
realize that the past is drifting further and further away and there
is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.
You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do
such damage to you or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet
anyone decent enough to get to know better.

You love someone but maybe
love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this
because you are not a bad person.
One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap and getting
wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go
through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk with
your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a
decision.
You worry about loans and money and the future and making a life for
yourself and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd
just like to be a contender! What you may not realize is that **
everyone ** reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times
and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole
thing out.

"Please dont feel bad its not you whozz to blame "

7 Comments:

Blogger firacub said...

rightly said Critic.. All what you wrote today was true.. right down to the last word. There was a time when I was confused in life much as you are today but then with time things got a bit better. I have not lived life in the fast lane so I still have some cards left to play with. I have talked about life with you before as well and I dont think I need to talk with you again. Not that I will give you the perfect answers everytime but to make the long story short you are getting wise with age and trust me if I say that even this time will pass out soon. Just hold yourself together and if again you do feel otherwise then let me know so that I can happily kick your ass back to life. Be happy mate and I wish that for you from the mottom of my heart.


Peace,
Firacub.

12:47 PM, November 16, 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Yep... A lot of things about me, I have'nt noticed... I have been feeling like scared kinda... But I try not to worry or look too ahead. But I dun know bout da rest of da thingz u wrote ;-) PEACE

6:43 PM, November 16, 2005  
Blogger Incompetant Critic said...

Well Well Well !!!

Fira I new u"d say that.
Dude I no you still have some cards still to show, but this side of the world izz going from bad to worst. Now I guess I need to look for somethin better,the only thin that now will be taken care of Will be jus a man and his will to survive,

I guess now I am talking to self on ur behalf,

Soon now the time shall change for BOTH ...

The Endless sorrow will End ???


Ashley

Keep going dont worry, jus dont turn ur back to the past..

5:02 AM, November 17, 2005  
Blogger De.vile said...

You gotta feel insecure and confused. Nobodys God, right?

9:20 PM, November 17, 2005  
Blogger De.vile said...

When I say you, I mean all of us in general

3:04 AM, November 18, 2005  
Blogger Incompetant Critic said...

De.vile

Its a lil Real if you"ll agree,

"You are what your deep driving desires is
As is your desire,so is your will
As is your will,so is your act
As is your act,So is your destiny."

and 1 more thgin I am not at all insecure,its jus that i feel a lil bad,or Sad sometimes for where we are heading ?

12:07 AM, November 19, 2005  
Blogger De.vile said...

Someone tells me its a phase, that question of yours.

We all must pass through it

8:56 PM, November 19, 2005  

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